Sex-Aware shares the low-down on when and why you should get tested.

If you are showing symptoms or know that you were exposed to an STI, you should get a test asap (but remember about incubation periods, see above), you are entitled to a free test. Look for the earliest appointment you can find via your regular gynecologist or urologist, through the appointment services 116117.de, or at any of the locations listed below. Gynecologists can really vary and we’ve heard stories of people being shamed when asking for an STI test. If you are seeking more supportive and understanding care, we recommend using one of the locations from our list, which are actively trying to offer supportive sexual healthcare!

Your doctor can absolutely test you for STIs, although some are a lot better than others in talking about risk, sex and infection. If you get tested from your gynecologist, you will have to pay privately, with the cost between €70- 150 unless you’re showing symptoms or had a known exposure. 

 Your doctor will run a comprehensive list of tests via blood test, oral/anal/vaginal swabs and/or urine that likely includes HIV, chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis. You don’t need to ask for anything in particular beyond the standard STI/HIV test.

Many doctors will ask you to swab your own throat and genitals; check out this infographic for instructions.

Some clinics might ask about your sexual practices and decide what tests to do from there, but for those that don't, we’ve noticed they often skip over anal swabbing—cue the outdated, sexist assumptions about FLINTA* sexuality. If you’re living your best life and playing with all your holes—whether it’s toys, penetration, or oral —then it’s time to get loud and proud! Tell your doc what’s up and make sure nothing gets left out.

Your doctor is bound by confidentiality, so they can’t share any of your health info without your permission. If you test positive for HIV or syphilis, your results will be anonymously reported for public health tracking, but that’s it. If you do get a positive result, it's a good idea to let your past sexual partners know—it's all about keeping everyone safe and healthy!

We’ll point you to places that offer services in English. If you can’t snag an appointment at one of those, ask a friend with at least B1-level German to help you out. We're all in this together!